Is it wrong to complain?


Becca asks:

Why is it wrong to complain when my mom or dad asks me to do something?
Denny answers:

God wants us to honor our parents with a good attitude.

In the Bible, God commands us to honor our parents. That means to obey them in a respectful, cheerful way, without complaining or arguing. You should have a good attitude even if you disagree with what your mom or dad wants you to do. You can let your parents know how you're feeling about something by using words that are not hurtful or complaints. Still, you should be respectful of their final decision.

Parents are not perfect, but God still commands you to obey and honor them. Your parents work hard to do what's best for you, and they love you. How fun is it to be around someone who complains? Instead of complaining when you don't get your way, be thankful for what your parents do for you. If you're thankful and obedient, your home will be a much happier place. Honoring your parents this way pleases God.

Bible Truth
  • "Do everything without complaining or arguing. Then you will be innocent and without any wrong. You will be God's children without fault. But you are living with crooked and mean people all around you, among whom you shine like stars in the dark world" (Philippians 2:14-15, NCV).

  • "Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 'Honor your father and mother' - which is the first commandment with a promise - 'that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth'" (Ephesians 6:1-3).


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